I am 28 years old. I met my girlfriend of 5 months online. Well we got together this past weekend and everything went smoothly. Until oral/penetrative sex came into play. I started kissing her and become fully erect. When it came to the sexual part I went limp. Is this normal or should I start looking into the idea of a dysfunction. We are engaged and love each other very much. I can give her oral pleasure but nothing more. Please help me. Thank you
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February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
you might have a mental issue with it since you’re a virgin and there’s so much pressure. it most likely is not a physical problem with your junk… Try taking your mind off it and work on pleasing her and it should work out fine. When I slept with a virgin bf, it took him a few times to get over the mental side of things and just go with the flow. Its normal!
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
"Can a virgin have an erectile dysfunction?"
Yes.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Yes, a virgin can..
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Its probably because its your first time and you were scared. Ive heard this is normal. Just relax and try and enjoy the sex dont worry to much.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
yes or need more practice
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Don’t see why not. It’s possible to have that condition even while being a virgin.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
See your doctor. He can help you better than anyone here.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
you are 28yrs old, n was your first time, you were probably nervous and eager to perform.. its psychological, u need to calm down and enjoy it, dont be nervous!..
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
What you are experiencing is called "performance anxiety". At the moment you are expected to perform, you become anxious and or worrisome and you lose your potency. This will go away when you become more comfortable. I suggest saving this special relationship for marriage. You will value each other more.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
yes loosing it would be a dysfunction itself lol
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Yes. Erectile dysfunction is something that effects alot of men, virgin or not. It has to do with the blood flow to the penis. Sometimes when you can’t get an erection it can be as simple as not being physically or emotionally attracted to your mate. But if that’s not an issue, you will want to see a doctor and ask more information about ED.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Erectile Dysfunction has nothing to do with virginity. It has to do with physical and psychological factors. It could just be that your nervous or that you could possibly have a corrupted nerve that tricks your mind. Talk wit your doctor about it.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
You’re probably just nervous. Take your time, enjoy yourself, and don;t think about it.
February 11th, 2010 at 12:24 am
Some of it could be just nervousness or stress or anxiety. Some of it could be lifestyle – that might need a few adjustments – like – No smoking, no beer/ale, no booze, no drugs, no junk food, no fast food garbage, no sugary sweet soda’s. Get on a good, helalthy, balanced diet including lots of boiled or steamed vegetables. Drink plenty of water, fruit juices & fat free milk. Snack on lots of RAW fruit & veggies. Get up one hour early every morning & take a BRISK 30 minute walk – then – do the same thing again in the evening after dinner. Make sure you eat a good, balanced breakfast daily. You get your energy for the day from your breakfast meal. Get 8 hours sleep at nite. Flip your mattress over so it will level out to give you a good nite’s rest. Avoid as much stress at work & at home as possible. You must make a commitmentl to YOURSELF to make improvements – or – it aint gonna happen.