what about kissing on first dates.. feeling up etc,?
Is too much too soon off putting?
What do men think?
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Sat, Dec 12, 2009
what about kissing on first dates.. feeling up etc,?
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What do men think?
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December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Good question. Yes reason is this: Young men have short attention spans and they bore easily.
If you give it up quick and have sex early on in the relationship you definitely lose his attention.
If you hold on and he moves on then you will feel proud that you didn’t give it up to him since he was only after sex and would drop you and move on anyways. If he stays with you>> then you know he really does love you and not your "personal squeeze box".
Men will never admit this so you need to hear the truth.
December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
kissing and making out is fine but just dont have sex until you know youll be fine after becasue me and my girlfriend had sex and that ended up to us breaking up.
December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Yes but don’t wait to long either
December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
A good rule of thumb is to allow a goodnight kiss on the first date if you had a good time and like him. No feeling up or sex if you want it to be a relationship where he respects you. Guys will tell you they are thrilled to get some on the first date, but that doesn’t mean they fall in love faster or that they are even interested in you. When you feel that the guy is relationship potential and you two are seeing just each other exclusively, you can start the sex talk. Most important of all, don’t do anything you are not comfortable with until you’re ready.
December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
a kiss on the first date is o.k. just don’t have sex till about a week later.
December 12th, 2009 at 7:01 am
I had sex with my then boyfriend- now my husband on the third date. I was 19 years and he was 28 years. I was the one who iniated sex. We never had any intention of even getting married and our intention was just to basically screw around and have fun. Voila, who knew that 6 months later he proposed. We got married when I was 21 years and he was 30 years. We have been married for 9 years and have 2 children. Go figure, cos I can’t either. Sometimes, life can be strange.