For the past year my boyfriend and I have been having a problem during sex. No matter what we do, more foreplay, a cockring, we’ve even used temporary abstinence in order to create more stimulation, he ejaculates like a minute in. I’ve asked him if he ever did this with anyone else and he says he didn’t. We really have no idea what to do, or what is causing this problem under the sheets. Is it me? What can we do to try to fix the problem? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
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February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
Until he gains more experience & confidence – buy a tube of ‘desensitizing’ cream & have him rub it onto ‘Junior’ to delay blastoff time.
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
tell him to jerk it before u do it and hell last longer
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
wear an ugly suit so he won’t be too turned on.
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
You are too young. Do it in front of your mom– she will tell you what you are doing wrong.
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
tell him to syop jacking off so offten
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
I would recommend having him look away and think non-sexual thoughts. Maybe your appearance is too exciting for him.
Maybe if you make him come through a hand job or a b l o w job and then have sex around half an hour later he will be able to control it better as he has already just come.
Also, tell him that when he pees he should try to stop mid pee and then continue, stop and then continue, etc as this is supposed to help him be able to control coming during sex better.
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
have him masturbate 20 minutes before yal have sex. or give him oral instead of him jerking off until he cums. then try. good luck!
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
he’s just too anxious … it’s prob your fault :-p
you must be super cute or something
you must really really turn him on … you are prob like sexual napalm
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
Have him put on a numbing cream and see if that is a start to help the problem
PS, it’s NOT you, OK?
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
he is prbably really horny so he gets it out right away
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
Although I agree with religious conservatives who want to challenge the youth to delay sexual activity for a while, I totally disagree with their message that a condom is a provision for sin. I send my Christian friends to the website below which debunks the whole thing against premarital sex in the Bible. That way they have no excuse not to support comprehensive sex education.
February 19th, 2010 at 8:10 pm
tell him to stop when he starts to get too excited and then continu again…
get you guy to exercise his pc muscles also known as "Kegels."
The benefits of a strong PC muscle include:
-> better orgasms: stronger orgasmic contractions
-> gain complete control of premature ejaculation
-> increase the distance you can "shoot" your semen load
-> control your erection – make your penis "bounce" up and down
-> improved urinary health & control