from orgasms achieved through clitoral stimulation?
I have been sexually active for 6 years, and I have never had an orgasm achieved through sexual intercourse. I know it’s not a very uncommon thing, as I have read about 1 in 3 women can’t achieve orgasm through sexual intercourse.
Am I missing out on something or is it basically the same as a clitoral orgasm? I have heard that it’s basically the same level of pleasure, but then I have heard other places that it’s a more intense pleasure.
Any personal experiences and opinions will be great.
Thank you.
haha…Scarlett’s dad has umm…A very big size actually…Let’s just say the average condom size is waaay too small…
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March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
Ok. I have had some lousy lovers, and then I had some who "educated" me. One was very good about showing me how to relax, because when I am distracted and not in the moment, I will have a lot of difficulty having an orgasm. The thing is, the more I focused on it, the harder it got to let go.
My advice is to relax, and a bit of g-spot stimulation never hurt anyone. (those orgasms are totally different – it feels like you need to pee, just relax they are really intense)
I know that once I got an experienced and patient lover, the rest would all fall into place, and I was right.
EDIT: if he is large, then you must be properly lubricated for intercourse to be comfortable at all. I strongly reccomend Astroglide, it isn’t sticky like K-Y (which I hate) and it doesn’t stain the sheets (that is an important detail if you have expensive sheets)
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
I have the same problem as you and it is so annoying when we have our girly get togethers and i can’t really join in with all the sexy talk
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
omg.. SO i had this problem for like 2years.. and I thought I was a freak or just wasnt good enough..
but they were always getting off so I didnt figure I was doing anything wrong
so long story short..lol.. I got my HOOD piercing (its kinda over your clit)
and now its so easy to get off now.. it did hurt to get done but it didnt hurt after and its so worth it..
(but dont get your actual clit piercing just the HOOD because the clit can be damaged if you take it out..but the hood doesnt get affected..
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
Gee Momma, Thanks for telling everyone. You said it was ok =(
Just kidding. Ok try this.Next time your having intersourse, put your legs on the mans shoulders. The goal is for his penis to rub your G-Spot.
If your doing missionary, while the guy is on top have him move his body up a little. He wont be in as deep but he will be rubbing your clit with his penis.
<I feel like a perv now>
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
*gulp*
Wow Riki… (I’m winking at you Nancy).
Mama you’re not alone. Many women don’t orgasm from intercourse. I have to be worked up the right way… lots of foreplay before hand.
Like Nancy said… relaxation is VERY important.
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
It is common. Of course, so is a small penis. So it could be that as well. I know my lady doesn’t have an issue with getting off either way. I just know how to work it like that though.
March 8th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
YES! Oh god yes I mean whoo hoo yes! if theres anything you wanna expierience, its an organism!………….actually…..ok I dont Actually know personelly but some of the magazines ive/….poeple told me about said the pleasure is the greatest feeling!