Ok, now I’m not trying to brag or talk highly about my sexual acts and performance but every time I engage is sex with my girlfriend (for 2 years) I try to get her to orgasm, in which I usually have success. We are pretty active when it comes to that part of our relationship, I’d say we engage in sex maybe 4-6 times a week and I get her to climax about 90% of the time, sometimes more than once a night.
Now at the beginning of our sexual relationship I used to be able to get my GF to orgasm pretty fast with just missionary style, but as we tried more and more throughout the relationship it seems a lot harder now to get her to orgasm just with sex and takes more forplay now (which I really don’t mind). It seems that now that she gets off easier to oral stimulation. Now I don’t mind doing either for the girl I love, but what could be the reason for the change? Is there a difference in the orgasm achieved through oral sex and through sex? Which is better? Is there something wrong?
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March 3rd, 2010 at 5:48 am
She probably just doesn’t get as excited anymore, since the relationship isn’t new. It is easier to get an orgasm if you are really excited. That is why sex tends to die down as you been in a relationship longer because the newness go a way. It’s not that big of a deal, because most people would take love over newness any days. Maybe you should just try new and exciting stuff. I know some people get a thrill by having sex in a place they "could" get caught.
I never had an orgasm achieved through sex, as long as many other girls. You should feel very lucky that your girl does!! But since I have never, I can’t tell you which one is better…through oral.. or through sex. I would think they were about the same..
March 3rd, 2010 at 5:48 am
There is nothing wrong with her or you, she is just more used to it… Oral is more pleasing on her, because its more focused on the orgasmic area.
March 3rd, 2010 at 5:48 am
She’s just used to you now. Kind of like watching the same movie over and over. After a while, it gets boring. Maybe trying different positions.
March 3rd, 2010 at 5:48 am
because sometimes stimulation is mental, it might just be that shes so used to that position that its boring her. but theres different orgasms. one from inside her vagina and then her clitoris. so that might be it, too. maybe try different positions. hope this helps =]