My girlfriend (who’s in her 20’s) has zero sexual desire. She’s always been this way her entire life. Little things such as kissing/hugging/snuggling/etc.. just do not turn her on at all. Obviously she’s also a virgin. We’ve tried a few things sexually but she’s not comfortable with them at all, which makes perfect sense to me since if she can’t find any sexual desire from kissing or necking I don’t see how she’d be ready for any further type of stimulation.
Is this something that is emotional/harmonal in women and is it treatable?
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March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
well… U said it. she is a virgin! and that means a lot. Sexual touching of any kind will make her uncomfortable. so you should respect her wishes and do the minimal, if you really like her. Remember, good girls are hard to find. Also sexual drive is based completely on emotion, so once she is comfortable having sex or wanting it that desire will come naturally. Nervous+ Sex= no desire and weird Give her time.
March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
I bet it’s her virgin fears unless she was molested.
March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
haha my older sister is like that too. But she says she’s saving herself for marriage. And trust me, thats not something that affects all women.
March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
Yes. Hormones can have an impact on sexual desire. Her weight, or any weight gain, can also impact it. If she’s not feelin sexy about her self, she’s going to feel uncomfortable being intimate with you. Make her feel comfortable and support her, I’m sure she’ll come around when she’s ready.
March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
Umm who told you that girls get turned on by cuddling? LOL
I understand kissing and necking but maybe its you who doesn’t turn her on. Don’t pressure her into anything. I’m like that too though necking might turn me on that doesn’t mean I want to have sex. Why don’t you try asking her what’s wrong. Maybe it’s some emotional problem she has. Something that affected her as a child . Who knows. The only person that can answer that question is her. Good luck
March 7th, 2010 at 12:05 am
Well I’m like that… Every woman is different. Find out what she likes to do, and if you can take her there, or etc. You’ll make her hapqy. Hope this helps.