I used to have a surging, robust sexual drive. It was absolutely off the charts. I felt like Kennedy on crack, with my throbbing 7 inch springing to life every time I laid eyes on a curvy figure or a cute face. Then, one day, I lost it all. I was listening to head phones too loudly and punctured a hole in my ear drum.
To make a long story short, the whole healed and my hearing is perfect now but I developed an inner ear disorder called eustachian tube dysfunction. It is chronic. It was very painful at first but now I just hear a slight pop in my ears each time I swallow.
I’ve been on decongestants galore and I’m ninety percent cured of the disease…just judging by how I feel. YET. One terrible thing happened to me, which may or may not be related to the ear disease. My masturbation sessions began to hurt. Every time I ejaculated I felt pain throughout my body. Don’t tell me it had nothing to do with ETD because it did…in those early days at least.
Then one day, I closed my eyes and dreamed of the rockstar chick, of my dreams I shot the most monstrous load of my life cause I was fantasizing about butt f***king her over a heap of coke.
Ever since that masturbation session, my sex drive has been virtually dead.
I was 22 years old.
I have tried everything to bring my sex drive back….psych meds. exercise, hookers, dance parties, and a girlfriend or two. I’m now 28 and I still go weeks at a time without feeling any sexual arousal.
If you know anything about the link between chronic pain and sex drive disorders please help.
If you know anything about how to revitalize sexual energy after the libido had died due to past genital pain, then please help.
If you know anything AT ALL about how a twenty something man can rejuvenate his sex drive, please help.
My erections are still strong and normal but I don’t feel any sexual energy. I just get a hard on in a very mechanical, disconnected way.
And I don’t get erect as often as a I used to.
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June 25th, 2010 at 6:13 am
This sounds like a complex problem that may have both physical and psychological aspects. The best course of action is to see your doctor and also a therapist.
Clearly, at least to me, the rockstar dream seems to be a kind of ’swan song’ – perhaps you subconsciously saying goodbye to your sex drive as a way to get over the pain. But it’s not the optimal solution. The best solution would involve getting your sex life back with no pain. A therapist might be able to help with this.
June 25th, 2010 at 6:13 am
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June 25th, 2010 at 6:13 am
It could be so many things man… If you masturbated often then you could be a permanent limp dick now. It could be a whole buncha things, your sex drive is based off of an emotion, and it’s apparent your stick is working right otherwise you wouldn’t get wood at all, so your junk is good it’s just the emotion of your sex drive that you need to get back. Have you tried asking your doctor? I mean, I hope you’d ask your doctor before asking people on Yahoo answers… Maybe that dream triggered you to stop feeling that side of your personality, so maybe another unexpected dream will bring it back… Anyway, a doctor and a therapist (the kind that you dont bang) will do you some good.