The thing to remember here is that you are NOT ready but to not kid yourself and think that you can control yourself. You can’t. Once you have armed yourself with that knowledge, you will also need to face the fact that the other person might be ready and will be trying to pressure you (no matter how understanding he or she will still pounce if given the chance).
Now, one of the ways to deal with not being in the face of temptation is to be extra paranoid and find out exactly where, when and with whom the two of you will be going out with. If it is just the two of you, then make sure it is to a crowded and well-lighted place. Another good diversion is to suggest sporty outings; go play tennis or bowling, make it a good workout and hopefully both of you will be too tired to think about sex. If you not sporty, then even a few competitive sessions of mini golf or a couple rounds of pool might help do the trick.
Remember, ONLY when you are ready.
Hope that helps and good luck.
okay. you avoid putting your self in a place were its just you in him, go around people. don’t think that when temptation come knocking at you door that you can escape, i don’t think so. your not stronger then your flesh
Get obsessive about something else important to you stay very busy exercise a lot don’t be alone with people you feel sexual attraction towards bathe a lot do yoga go out on a date with yourself make a nice romantic setting and love yourself
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
The thing to remember here is that you are NOT ready but to not kid yourself and think that you can control yourself. You can’t. Once you have armed yourself with that knowledge, you will also need to face the fact that the other person might be ready and will be trying to pressure you (no matter how understanding he or she will still pounce if given the chance).
Now, one of the ways to deal with not being in the face of temptation is to be extra paranoid and find out exactly where, when and with whom the two of you will be going out with. If it is just the two of you, then make sure it is to a crowded and well-lighted place. Another good diversion is to suggest sporty outings; go play tennis or bowling, make it a good workout and hopefully both of you will be too tired to think about sex. If you not sporty, then even a few competitive sessions of mini golf or a couple rounds of pool might help do the trick.
Remember, ONLY when you are ready.
Hope that helps and good luck.
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
mastur bation
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
Do sports, lots of sports… take a cold shower… m*sturbate.
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
Question makes no sense, If you are not ready for sexual activity, I am assuming you will have no sexual feelings.
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
okay. you avoid putting your self in a place were its just you in him, go around people. don’t think that when temptation come knocking at you door that you can escape, i don’t think so. your not stronger then your flesh
March 6th, 2010 at 9:03 am
Get obsessive about something else important to you stay very busy exercise a lot don’t be alone with people you feel sexual attraction towards bathe a lot do yoga go out on a date with yourself make a nice romantic setting and love yourself