I’ll be clear…it takes a lot of stimulation to get my boyfriend to climax. However, I lack the stamina to provide that very often, partially due to inexperience, since I’ve been virgin until relatively recently. What can I do to not have lockjaw at the end of an oral sex session, and how can I both last longer during sex and be able to keep up with the pace that he enjoys most?
Wow…erm, thanks for the advice, but I already do do most of those things. It usually starts with between about forty five minutes to an hour of blowjob, then sex.
I try not to just lie there, and me on top works, but only for me, and since I can’t continue after I finish, well…you see the problem with that. He’s very considerate and understanding, but I’m getting frustrated. And I’m sure its no walk in the park for him either. ;p
I would use lube, but recommendations on both application and brands would be nice.
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November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
I’m having the same issue. I can’t come for nothing. Most of the time i just get tired. You will get better with time, but I would suggest that he watch a porno first. Masturbate him for at least five to ten minutes, use some lubrication. There is some stuff my ex use to use that has flavor to it. Seeing that your fairly new to this I can hopefully assume that you just lay there and make painful facial expressions. Well, you have to stimulate him in several ways, by screaming or making sexy noises (watch a porno and learn). You can also dig your nails into his ass or back that always feels good. Finally, try different positions, like laying on your stomach and letting him enter from behind while sitting on you. If that doesn’t work, incorporate toys for him!!
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
you tease him for as long as you can before engaging in copulation
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
Pace yourself!
think of other things when nearing the moment of truth
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
If you are a female and you come more then once while having sex so what? I come a lot when having sex with my husband.
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
i had similar problems with my first girlfriend, it is totally fine. im gona guess by stamina u mean that after a short while or maybe from the beginning on it u experience a lot of pain. ur boyfriend needs to be considerate of this. honestly the more u do it the better u will get at it. i dont wana corrupt u but u can even watch pornos to see some thing u mite lik to try. but i hope ur bf is supportive and does not get aggravated, if he does let him kno that u are trying ur hardest to please him but its hard for u and he should not be mad at u for that. even with oral sex the more u do it, the better u get at it. u may also want to let ur bf kno when it becomes unbearable that it hurts so that he can begin to start attempting to climax, that should work to help u both
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
Us women have the luxury of multiples, so keep enjoying there’s always more to come (spell it either way)
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
alternate between hand & mouth also mix it up with licking & sucking & them finishing up with what called cowgirl with you sitting up on top of him like your riding a horse