Whenever I have sex, I feel absolutely nothing at all. Just pressure. No pleasure. If I were to insert a finger into myself and move it around, I wouldn’t feel it. I’d feel it if I press up or any other direction, I’d feel a deep pressure, but other than that, I feel nothing.
Has anyone else ever experienced this? I’m only 20, never had any vaginal infections or STDs ever. The only way I have ever orgasmed is if I stimulate myself clitorally. Am I a freak? I know I should have this checked out, I just don’t have the money for a doctor. I’m not seeking a doctor’s diagnosis off of this site, I’m just seeking anyone who’s had similar or the same problems. 
Thanks, I’m really worried about it. From everyone I’ve known, they tell me sex is a wonderful, pleasurable experience — I feel like I’m missing out.
It’s not that I’m into sex. I have a wonderful sex drive, it’s just, during sex, I feel nothing.
It’s not like I’m NOT into sex, is what I meant to say.
I don’t know how you expect me to "Lie back enjoy" when I’m not getting any enjoyment feeling whatsoever. Rub your finger on your arm. I don’t even feel that sort of sensation. It’s not positional because I’ve tried many positions and I still get nada.
I’m not too interested in toys in the bedroom, but perhaps I’ll try picking up some of the herbal supplements to see if that helps. The pillow idea might also help, so I’ll try that too. I thank you all so much! 
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January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
It is normal. Some women have more sensitive nerves in the clitoris and the g spot area does not have a concentrated group of nerves, they are more spread out & therefore it is just harder to offer stimuli that can be effective.
Believe me, with stimulation on the clitoris you will be more than happy, you just need to find the right positions that actually stimulate it.
I am just like you & it helps me to put a pillow under my hips when we are doing it, that thrusts my hips up & the clitoris actually gets stimulated. But you need to look for something that works for you.
Good luck!
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
because you have met the guy that you really liked, if you really like that guy, you will be very into the sex, right now, you are just having sex, not making love
that is not a sexual dysfunction, you just haven’t met the man
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
There are many factors to consider. To many to write down here. But your age suggest that your issues could be simply positional in nature.
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
i’m in the same boat as you are
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
more u worry about it, less pleasure u will get out of it. so just relax n njoy! u r perfectly normal , deeper parts are not sensitive, u get pleasure from clitoris and outer parts only. instead of getting, try to concentrate on giving pleasure. U will get more!
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
Just buzz me…
I’ll give you pleasure with no pressure……..
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
You say different positions don’t help, so maybe you could try introducing sex toys to the bedroom? That way you can stimulate yourself in all the right places during sex. Also there are plenty of herbal supplements readily available from health stores such as holland & barrett which act as aphrodisiacs, increasing bloodflow to the genitals and thus increasing sexual sensitivity and arousal. To name a few, there are Ginkgo Biloba, horny goat weed and even ginseng which all increase sexual desire and bloodflow.
Good luck hun
January 8th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
If you are using a spermicide it could numb you. It does me.
If your partner is using a penis desinsitizer it could be making you numb as well.