I feel very aroused, very much ready to go, but i am still dry even with physical stimulation. My partner is worried that i am not attracted to him anymore, and that is sooo far from accurate (he’s the sexiest man alive!), but how do i reassure him that it isn’t his fault, and that it doesnt reflect on my sexual desire for him?
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January 27th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
Everyone’s body is different and some women may produce less vaginal lubrication than others. If that is the case, use some sort of lubricant, such as K-Y jelly. (However, note that if you are prone to yeast infections, avoid lubricants with glycerin!) As for your partner, communicate your feelings to him and tell him that you do not have control over how wet you get. You could also try distracting him with other arousing language so he doesn’t worry about it. Also, perhaps trying to incorporate lubricant into your routine so it doesn’t seem awkward. Good luck!
January 27th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
buy some k-y.
January 27th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
It could be hormone related. Or it could be your birth control or any meds you are on. Buy some AstroGlide or KY-Jelly. He’s insecure if he thinks it’s him especially after you tell him how much you want him.