Newly I read, people wouldn’t marry a paralyzed person because "sex would be boring".
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February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
i know at least two women who lived with paralized men. both love to make love.
they both broke because of the bad behaviour of the men, not due to sexual activity. they where both satisfied with the way of making love, even it was not the "ususal" way.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Yes, were all mammals and need sex at times. Some more than others some this way or this many days etc.
Sex is an activity that takes 2 – and without there would be stress!
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
It is and I wish it wasn’t! Most of the time I am too tired to have sex. I just did every chore, cleaned the whole house all day, cooked, and took care of my daughter and my animals. I get all this done, baby’s in bed, I finally sit down to relax and my husband it asking for sex! Damn, not another chore! Now is supposed to be my time to chill but he won’t leave me alone. It pisses me off.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
I think a lot of people would say so because this world is all sex-centered and everything, but I wouldn’t. I see sex as something that’s a privilege, but not a necessity and a way you get to show your partner you love them and not pure fun. What if I did meet someone who was paralyzed and I loved them? Dumping them because the lack of sex or whatever in my opinion is horrible. That’s not fair to them, they didn’t get to chose that they were that way. What about people like Stephen Hawking or Christopher Reeve? You’d just dump them after all that? I say no way, at least for me. If we never had sex, I’d be just fine. We could show each other our love so many other ways. We might have to work some things out, but there’s so much more to marriage than just sex.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Depends on the sex drives of the people involved. Note however that research has proved that bad relationships with good sex tend to last 3 times as long as good relationships with bad sex.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
No, but it still does have a bit of importance. I waited until marriage and don’t want to be deprived of sex after nearly 27 years of virginity!
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
it is the glue, it is very important, but if you love the person enough you could try to teach them how to be a better lover, for example if a person cant move theyre legs, then just show them how they can work with theyre hands
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Sexual activity is extremely important but I disagree with the opinion on paralyzed people. If my husband was paralyzed I would still find ways to be intimate with him. If his d*ck didn’t work He still has hands, fingers a mouth and we can still use toys
Sex with my husband could never be boring….because we are comfortable with each other and have imaginations.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
yes it is important and needed for body
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Heck ya! It’s important, but not the only thing. Love is even more important. People should not marry paralyzed people for sex. It’s a damned good idea to marry one for love. Good sex really is for the young. Women hit menopause and their coochie goes dry. Men eventually become impotent. A good love relationship is for the young at heart. it warms my heart to see older couples holding hands. Sex will end, but love is eternal.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
If you think sex with a paralyzed person would be ‘boring’, you simply aren’t using your imagination. There are plenty of ways for a paralyzed man or woman to get, and give sexual pleasure. Would I get into a relationship with a paralyzed person? Maybe. If they were smart, funny, well-educated, interesting, attractive, and cool, I would certainly entertain the notion of pursuing a relationship with them. Paralysis doesn’t mean your sex life is over – it simply means you have to get creative, and find ways of being sexual that work for you, and your partner.
Is sex all that important in a marriage? You bet it is. Sex is a basic function, and need, in adults. Since humans are smaller, and slower, than other large predators, we needed to band together in tribes to provide protection, and allow us to survive. Sex is an effective way of forging, and re-enforcing bonds between people. As well, it’s a source of great pleasure and fun.
February 15th, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Yes, its very important! It keeps you close! Its not just a friend!!!