If person A is involved in a relationship with person B, that is monogamous, but person A is involved in BDSM. Person A goes to BDSM parties with person B’s permission. Person A gets involved in a spur of the moment, non-negotiated, erotic asphyxiation scene with a person at the party. Upon blacking out, person A has an orgasm. There’s no other sexual stimulation, just the sleeper hold resulting in an orgasm upon blacking out.
Did person A cheat on person B?
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March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
Did A and B have an agreement that A could engage in non-sexual BDSM activities?
If so, then I wouldn’t consider it cheating, given that the orgasm was unintended.
However, it may fall into a gray area in terms of disclosure- if it’s something that should be perfectly fine, then A shouldn’t have a problem simply shrugging and saying "Oh, by the way, this happened.".
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
NO not if person B gave permission for person A to go.
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
For person A this is sexual and so therefore I would say yes. However really this depends on what the partners defined what cheating is mutually. If you guys failed to have that talk then the time is now, every couple needs to define what is cheating collectively that way the ground rules are set and there is no "misunderstandings!"
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
I hope person "C" can still remember their name and how to do their job on Monday morning. May I suggest some safer fun for all these folks, like injecting opium derivatives? Join a soccer club while I go throw up! And thank you very much!
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
It depends on what person B thinks. Cheating values differ greatly from person to person and person A should find out exactly what person B thinks about cheating.
I’m not sure what I’d think about that.
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
YES…you can sugar coat it in way you like….just because ur partner says ..sure go ahead…..doesn’t mean she/he wants you to cheat…. take some personal responsibility ….heck why even be with someone if ur are going to cheat…
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
I think Person A might need a timeout and a little quality time with Person B. Geez.
March 25th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
no definitely not – me & wife go out to parties – sometimes she goes into the room for an hour & returns back but i dont mind – it s not cheating