I want to be able to give my girlfriend an orgasm through sexual intercourse, but we’ve run into a few problems.
She cannot orgasm through vaginal stimulation, but can just fine with clitoral stimulation. So we’ve tried a variety of things, including her masturbating, using vibrators etc etc.
The thing is, she tells me with both clitoral stimulation and the feeling of vaginal intercourse at the same time, she can’t focus on the particular sensations she needs to orgasm because theres too much happening, and so although both feelings are incredibly pleasurable they can’t tip her over the edge. The few times she has managed to orgasm during sex and masturbation she has told me felt very strange and not something she would want to get used to.
Although this isn’t overly frustrating, it would just be nice for her to be able to orgasm when we have sex, instead of having to rely on oral and manual stimulation.
Has anyone else any experience of this, either sharing the same problem, or knowing how to resolve it?
Any advice would be very much appreciated.
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February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Yes, I have an extremely tough time cumming from sex… It feels real good and gets me excited, but I can only cum pretty much from oral or masterbation. Try it with her on top and when she’s doing you have her rub her pelvis into yours it will stimulate her clit at the same time while having sex and is much easier to cum from than having her clit played with by hand while doing it. That’s the only way I can cum from sex. But it still is hard and everything has to be just right for me to do it.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Go for her G-Spot.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
My wife and I have a similar problem, but we have tried different positions to see if we can find one that works. The closest one so far is when we spoon and then I enter her. It stimulates her in the right place. Problem is, she gets so excited that I always manage to blow my load before she cums. We’re getting closer though.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Most women cannot orgasm regularly through intercourse alone.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Brother it’s time for lot’s and lot’s of foreplay…… lot’s of oral. lot’s of neck action… porno. just be patient and try different techniques…btw im me
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
With girls, they have to me mentally stimulated as well as physical. Foreplay and teasing definitely works… try caressing her body while it’s going on and talk dirty!
I honestly used to think i’d never have an orgasm through intercourse with my exes. But the truth was it was because I wasn’t as into it was I am with my current boyfriend. We both get into it and he gets into my brain.
Also, try different angles. Each girl has a "g" spot that u can hit just right and make her melt.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Yup, go for the G-spot (front wall of the vagina near urethra). Go inside with your mouth/fingers/penis and aim there.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
yeah g-spot and cl1torous stimulation. (and all these guys wanting a bigger c0ck, the first 2 to 3 inches is where the satisfaction for women is at).
If doing doggy style, you can reach under and so cl1t stimulation while vaginal intercourse.
She could take some libidio increasing herbs, Wild Yam, Ginseng.
On your part, don’t just do deep penetration try this: penetrate fully and withdraw up to to the point of almost withdrawal but just right where the head of the penis is still inserted.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
i went through this with my husband, and i found that if i sit (upright) with him simply laying down, and rock my hips back and forth… that it really stimulates the gspot. tell her to try putting her hands on her hips, or on your chest for stablization. it makes for a great orgasm for me, and him seeing me orgasm makes his that much better… try it. <3