Iam 17 years old and am in my first sexual relationships. During the foreplay I am very aroused and things are fine. Its only when the sex is about to begin, I lose my focus if you know what I mean. With oral stimulation that helps things but it seems like I finish too quickly. My heart always beats very fast and seems like I always have to pee many times before feeling like I can maintain an erection. What can I do to help this? What things can I change in my daily life or w/e to help me maintain arousal? Thanks
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March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
This website has a lot of links for you to use for help.
http://web4health.info/en/answers/sex-menu.htm
March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
Drink a beer or think about your grandma– or both.
March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
Practice, man, practice. Whether by yourself or with your partner, it helps prolong endurance. The pee thing might be a fetish issue, and I won’t judge, I’ll just say that’s gross. You might want to post this question in Men’s health, so the geniuses over there can have a crack at it. All I can say is take it slow. Chicks don’t like being humped like a rabbit, anyway.
March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
try to keep a steady diet.. i know it might sound weird..
but it will stimulate and maintain the function of your body.
GOOOOODLUCK
maybe go see a doctor but if u dont want to then learn to take ur time and hold back more, it is possible to keep controlled but you have to learn how.
im sure ur partner wouldnt mind u working on it if in the long run its worth the while. good luck
March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
This question was posed on that old ladies show on oxygen…she said that for the feeling of pee…she said 2 take a pee b4 the intercourse…if that doesn’t work she said to try self-stimulation[if u know what i mean] as a practice to help you build stamina and she said if all else fails talk to a physician…because there could b an underlying medical problem…but remember strap up!!! hope everything works out 4 you!!!
March 6th, 2010 at 4:29 am
The older you get and the more practice [[aka: sex]] you have, the easier and more natural it will become for you to control your orgasm. SO MANY younger men have this problem… then when they get into their 20’s they are usually fine and can hold off as long as they want to.
You may be either nervous, or just over-excited. [[I'm thinking the latter here]]. During sex, you can do things to slow you down. Try moves that aren’t as stimulating to you [[like, it feels good ofcourse, but not as good as your usual way]]… aka: change positions. This requires you to briefly stop the activity and de-sensitize for a moment. Also, have your girlfriend very gently pull downward on your testicles… that is known to prolong the male orgasm. When you are not with your girlfriend… masturbate, but focus on making yourself last [[practice]].
Perhaps bring her to orgasm before you have sex by manually or orally stimulating her. Then she has had her share, and it won’t feel like you have finished too early, because she has received her pleasure.
Just try not to focus on the end product: Your orgasm. Focus on relaxing and enjoying the moment.