ok so, i was at a party and i was doing a lot of oxycontin. it was a terrible idea and i’m never going to do it again. but there was this girl who i really like and we starting making out and fooling around. she wanted to have sex with me, but i could not achieve and erection and she stopped me. she felt insulted and pretty much i ruined my chances with her. anyway, i’m certain it was the oxycontin that played a huge role, but i also suffer from anxiety and i have never been with a girl before. i was nervous, but i was turned on and now i fear that the next time i’m in this situation, i’m going to think about this night and the same thing will happen to me. i even have trouble getting erections when i’m alone because once i start thinking about sexual things i keep thinking about that night and it scares me. i keep feeling like i have a sexual dysfunction. i’m just really scared and nervous and need some guidance. i’m a 20 year old male and sexually inexperienced.
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March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
It happens to every guy at some point. You just need to forget about it and move on. You’re not the first and definately not the last guy to have performance anxiety.
March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
Okay… so what’s the question? You want to get over the anxiety of sex?
March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
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March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
You need someone you can be comfortable with and who’ll be patient with you. It’s embarrassing but not something you need to be too ashamed of if you’re with the right girl.
My friend would always get a hard time from us (his buddies) because we heard about his problem, like yours… but he eventually got a girlfriend he really cared about and the problem went away. They’re married now actually.
March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
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March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
Next time just calm down. What the hello do you nervous about in front of a beautiful naked woman.
March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
okay dont be scared or nervous!!!!! do u take anxiety pills? if u do it could be those affecting u most pills dealing with that or depression or any pych meds affect ur sexual ability.
March 9th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
Sooo funny, i just had the same problem last night. I went on this date with a Jessica Alba look alike and got her home…was on the oxy’s and we went at it, i was so freking excited inside, but when it was time, couldnt get it up….that led to the anxiety and then nothing. i have alot of experience and this has never happened to me before…I have been upset about it all day but I think I know now it was the Oxy’s that were a big part so i am gonna just forget about it and not let it get to me. But man was she hot, I will always be mad I missed out.