i was caught on camera, making out with my girlfriend. and was suspended from school due to sexual activity for 5 days. i want to tell my parents but i am afraid of what their response will be. what should i do?!? i need help!
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September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
So you were daft enough to (a) do it in school, and (b) do it in front of a camera.
Your parents may or may not be shocked at what you did, but they will surely blush to think they brought you up with so little common sense.
This time, be a man, bite the bullet, tell them all. They can’t eat you. They will surely find out anyway – the head will be writing to them to explain your suspension. It’s only 5 days – by the way, how come you got off so lightly? Count your blessings.
If it’s bad for you, think of your poor girlfriend. Parents are always more uptight about daughters. Unless she rules the roost at home, she’s due for a long grounding, and you won’t be seeing her in the evenings for a while.
All part of life’s rich pageant.
September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Tell them but say that you were only making out with there. Making out ain’t "sexual activity".
September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
That’s true. I thought it was worse from the question. That’s stupid. They shouldn’t put sexual ctivity…that is NOT a sexual activity!!!
September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
you got to tell them. Otherwise you’ll get in bigger trouble for concealing the truth.
I just hope that you were in the hall or courtyard or parking lot or some semi-public space. If you two were naked in a supply closet, then their reaction will be different.
If it was just a casual smooch, then they might even get your back. But if you were in advanced states of undress in a private setting at the school, then they will be upset.
Either way, tell them the truth and tell them quickly. Wow. School is a lot more strict than it was when I was in high school.
Good Luck,
September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Two things,
1. You got 5 days from making out with a girl? At my school me and my girl are in the stairwells like every lunch time, doing whatever we can think of. If a teacher comes past they just tell us to go outside.
2. Tell them, they won’t care. And they would much rather hear it from you first before the head rings em up and has a chat with them.
September 9th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Well, I am assuming that you are in high school? You are at the age that you should start taking responsibilities for your actions and although I don’t think you have comitted the crime of the century, I’m sure that you were aware of the rules of your school and knew that if you got caught that you would be reprimanded. So, now the thing to do is stand up and take it like someone your age should…tell the truth to your parents. I’m sure they would much rather hear it from you than someone else..imagine them getting a call from the principal, a teacher, the head master or whoever it will be and hearing it from this person for the first time. They might get the call at a really bad time and make it worse. I’d have a talk with them very soon and let them know that you know you have made a mistake and you are willing to deal with the circumstances and let them know that you have learned a lesson from this and that it won’t happen again. Be sincere about it though. They will have alot more respect for you for handling it this way than if they find out that you have been hiding it from them like a little child. Apologize to them for your actions and tell them that you understand if they are upset. Just do this and handle it in a mature manner and by doing this it will show maturity and respect on your part and things will probably go alot smoother than you think. And you will feel sooo much better to just go ahead and get it out in the open to them and over with so you can go and concentrate on other things. And remember, there is a time and a place for everything…and are you going to have to face the girl’s parents? If you are not forced to, I would make an effort to contact them and apologize to them in the same respectful way..otherwise they might end up telling her that she can no longer see you. It’s all part of growing up..and handling things responsibly. Good luck to you. Hope everything works out for you. I’m sure you will make the right decicision.