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I have been sexually active for 6 years, and I have never had an orgasm achieved through sexual intercourse. I know it’s not a very uncommon thing, as I have read about 1 in 3 women can’t achieve orgasm through sexual intercourse.

Am I missing out on something or is it basically the same as a clitoral orgasm? I have heard that it’s basically the same level of pleasure, but then I have heard other places that it’s a more intense pleasure.

Any personal experiences and opinions will be great.
Thank you.
haha…Scarlett’s dad has umm…A very big size actually…Let’s just say the average condom size is waaay too small…

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MY QUESTION (sexual difficulties of married Catholic couple):

Imagine this situation: husband and his wife, which do obey all the teachings on sexual morality of Catholic church, but she or he are experiencing some difficulties during sex. Wife can’t achieve orgasm just by common intercourse (she can’t achieve orgasm just by vaginal stimulation).
So, the only way she can reach orgasm is by oral stimulation, but Catholic church strongly forbids oral sex as a way of achieving orgasm.

After common intercourse her husband can’t make her to have orgasm too by oral stimulation. (It seems to me as incomplete self giving of husband to wife)

So what can they do, to just accept she’ll never achieve orgasm during her life or what?
According to sexual therapists, only 17% of women can achieve orgasm just by common sexual intercourse.

Husband also can have great difficulties with erection, because he can be afraid of unwanted pregnancy, there are also great deal of other reasons, e.g. boredom in sex, etc….

His wife can’t stimulate him orally, because there is great possibility to husband to finish. (again, this kind of sex is not permitted by church cause it’s not open to reproduction, and to new life) Church doctrines on sex are mainly led by reproductive reasons, but if wife and husband both have difficulties during sex, the reproductive possibilities of couple will be greatly reduced.

But also, because church doctrines on sex include all other aspects of self giving, we can no longer speak of complete act of self giving, cause it’s not complete without pleasure from both sides. (Pleasure is also one of all other aspects of complete self giving of husband to wife) There also great deal of psychological problems which often follow such a incomplete sex, which at most cases cause alienation between spouses and even divorce. Even Pope John Paul the 2th. said (Theology of Body), the pleasure is also great aspect of self giving between husband and wife in fact God’s gift. Please, don’t report me, I really need answers.
I know that Catholic church’s views on sex are:

1. Sex outside of marriege is forbidden,

2. Sex is act of complete self giving of husband to wife & vice versa,

3. It has to be open to new life, so artificial contraceptives are forbidden, we can use only NFP mathods,

4. Natural Family Planing is permitted only in some understandable cases,

5. The lust without love makes sex incomplete and sinful,

6. Oral sex is permitted only as the part of foreplay,

7. It’s forbidden to use oral sex as a way of achieving orgasm, so we can’t go till end,

8. Husband have to finish inside of his wife (so, that supports the 7.)
9. Masturbation is also forbidden (cause of 8.)

10. Any sexual activity which will not lead to possible making of the new life.

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