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I have chronic disorder of sexual desire. Can you help me?

admin — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 10:32:04 +0000

I am a healthy 21 yr old female with an almost-5 yr old child. this disorder has been a constant ever since i lost my virginity at 14. My 1st kiss at 13 was arousing, and i fantasized for almost a yr about things going further than they did. Then, when sex entered the picture for real, i did not become aroused at all. My 3rd partner, who is the father of my child, failed not only to give me an orgasm but also to arouse me. Sex was about him…and i didn’t notice any problem until years later. He was an insecure, jealous type that left me questioning my sanity. After all, he loved me.
After 2 yrs, i became pregnant and dumped him because i knew i couldn’tt deal with 2 children. I fell in love with hugo, a peruvian national that was 10 yrs my senior. i was 16.
i craved the contact of sex, wanted to be wanted very badly, but still no arousal…i knew what i was missing, cuz i was a chronic masturbator from an early age, pre-kindergarten.
after hugo was deported due to being an illegal, after 3 yrs together, I admit i became promiscuous. i ran from partner to partner, hoping that 1 of them would give me that magic feeling. i even indulged in drugs reputed to be "sex enhancers" to no avail. i learned with my daughter’s father how to fake an orgasm, tho, and thanks to my mother’s noisiness in the bedroom, i knew how it sounded. that became a problem too: the men had no idea something was wrong, for i performed like a porn star. the dead feeling in my groin when i had contact with them, oral, finger or penis, was utterly disappointing….the worst part was, i could still masturbate to orgasm, but the desire there too was lost. i could bring that wave of pleasure, but there was nolead upp, just a pleasant muscle spasm.
i don’t know what to do to fix myself, i don’t know why i am the way i am…but i know what im missing out on, and i want to be able to enjoy sex, not just the cuddling and tenderness, but the feeling of my partner giving me the supreme pleasure, of being able to legitimately give him MY pleasure. i sound selfish, but i just want to be normal. anyone that can help is welcome to answer this. i will appreciate the feedback.
And btw, i am 21 YEARS OLD. I have been dealing with this for 7 years. I want a normal sex life. If you hadnt orgasmed in 7 YEARS, wouldn’t you be thinking there is something wrong?
I’m a single mother trying to get my life together. therapy is out of the question. Groceries, rent, and Christmas come before that. I can’t afford anything like that. If you aren’t going to answer me with anything helpful, please don’t bother.

Are you presently feeling a psychological and mental disorder over the gay marriage ban?

admin — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 19:42:07 +0000

Are you feeling dysfunctional and unable to perform simple tasks, because you are made to feel like a 4th class citizen? Are you feeling anxious and suicidal because you feel your human dignity is being taken away from you? Are you sad and mental disturbed and depressed because you are unable to marry the person you have choice? Do you cut yourself, do drugs, and lacking in sexual arousal because of the gay marriage ban?

You may hestitate to answer, but these types of questions were asked by the judge during the California Prop 8 case.

4th class citizen:
1. Blacks who can marry
2. Whites and others who can marry
3. Married gays
4. And you who are gay and unmarried

how can i have relation with other women?

admin — Sun, 21 Mar 2010 22:03:45 +0000

Hi can any one tell me about sexual stimulation drugs avalable in India for women. Also please tell me who does it work and methord to use it. Please Please Please Related posts:When I started psycotic drugs I couldn't ejaculate properly, I was wondering what women experience ? Is there a biological reason why women’s breasts are [...] Related posts:

At what age do guys become sexually dysfunctional?

admin — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 05:00:30 +0000

Drinking, smoking ,experimenting with drugs combined with age and bad diet equals sexual dysfunction…doesn’t it? Sometimes meds come into play too. Related posts:does engaging into sexual activity make one obese? Pregnancy porn (non sexual question)? what is the best treatment to cure prostate enlarging problems?(frequent urinating)? Related posts:

Do not feel very much from sexual stimulation.?

admin — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 23:47:58 +0000

First, I am a male, 18. I do not feel very much from sex or using a fleshlight. Why is this exactly? I once had a unique experience where it felt great, but I was high on marijuana, and I do not smoke marijuana anymore because it causes me anxiety. I get off once a day.
It’s not that I don’t feel ‘anything’ but I feel quite indifferent to anything I feel. And it’s not a sexuality thing, I know my sexuality well and am not mistaken in my attraction to women.
I take concerta, welbutrine, and tennex every morning, could these have an effect? I do not drink or do other drugs and I exercise often. I’m not sure it was ever different though, regarding the issue.
Please let me know.
Thank you

What is a good herbal remedy for erectile dysfunction and will these remedies really work and to what extent.?

admin — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:19:41 +0000

I AM 56 YRS. OLD AND I AM A SMOKER . THIS PROBABLY DOESNT HELP. BUT WHAT CAUSES ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION AND IS THERE ANY HOPE BESIDES VIAGRA TYPE DRUGS. I HAVE HEARD THAT HERBAL REMEDIES WORK BUT NEED TO KNOW WHICH ONES AND DO THEY DO WHAT THEY CLAIM. THAT IS TO MAKE ERECTIONS HARDER AND LAST LONGER AND RETURN TO NORMAL SEXUAL FUNCTION.I AM AT WITS END AND DO NOT WANT TO RELY SOLELY ON VIAGRA.IN OTHER WORDS I WOULD LIKE TO GET AN ERECTION SPONTANEOUSLY WITH MY GIRLFRIEND RATHER THAT WAITING AN HOUR AND A HALF FOR THE VIAGRA OR CIALIS TO WORK.ALSO I FIND THIS VERY DEPRESSING AND SUFFER FROM DEPRESSION ANYWAY SO THIS DOESNT HELP.PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN I NEED TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM .

serious question about sexual performance?

admin — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 09:23:32 +0000

I have a problem. I’m 44 and have developed PE over the past 5 years. Most men my age develope ED. All though I have on occasion recently had some ED problems, I’m thinking its more of an anxiety issue because of the PE. I’m physically in better shape than I’ve been since high school. I’ve talked with my doctor and there stumped considering my physical fitness. I never had a problem before. I recently got married 5 years ago. No problem then. It’s just been steadly getting worse ove the past 5 years. Allthough some may find this not all that big of a deal. Try living with it is all I can say. My wife is almost to the point of wanting some outside the marriage intercourse. Heck maybe I need some outside stimulation just to see if its really me or her. All I know is I need some serious help, Please.
A Canadian,
I’m not saying it is her fault, i’m just reaching for an explanation. But maybe she doesn’t turn me on like she use to so its all in my head I don’t know. I excersize 4 times a week she does nothing but sit there. I’ve tried to get her into excersicising but to no avail.
Viagra doesn’t help with PE. I’ve tried it. But thanks anyway.
perfectvelvet,
I don’t drink, or do drugs. I don’t smoke either. My life is stressfull most of the time. I know this cold be part of it. I’ve tried different techiques as described but I think I was impatient or they just didn’t work. Most of the time I can be doing the dead and not even fell close to orgasm, then out of the blue with no warning bamm it’s over, no warning or even felling its getting close untill its to late.

hi, how the drug detection scanner in airports work?

admin — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:23:33 +0000

i want to take sexual stimulation drugs (around 10nos) to another country in the luggage. airport scanners can detect it? please answer. thanks. Related posts:What drug can treat sexual dysfunction? What is a good herbal remedy for erectile dysfunction and will these remedies really work and to what extent.? Is it illegal to work as a NON sexual [...] Related posts:

Sertraline (Zoloft) caused me Post SSRI Sexual Dysfunction… Can I sue?

admin — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 07:31:47 +0000

I am extremely upset. I haven’t had a good ejaculation in God knows how long and I can’t keep it up long enough to even do it. Even if I do keep it up long enough, I am not able to have an orgasm or ejaculate. Some days, if I get lucky, I’m able to successfully achieve orgasm and ejaculate, but I have a lot of difficulties, even after discontinuing the medication. I am ashamed and embarrassed because I had to explain to the person I lost my virginity to why I couldn’t finish. Even when I masturbate I don’t get any results. I am hurt and downright ANGRY that a company would market a drug that has this kind of potential. NO ONE told me that Post SSRI Sexual Dysfunction was a possibility, not even my DOCTOR! I feel I deserve some compensation for my ruined sex life, though it will never be fixed… Can I sue and who do I sue, the company or the doctor?
Edit: I’ve already tried the "viagra class" of drugs and the only thing it does is make me dizzy.
Edit: But the side effects don’t say PERMANENT sexual dysfunction. So, the assumption is that the symptoms of sexual dysfunction will go away when stopping the medication.
Edit: Btw I DID read the side effects and I did not see permanent sexual dysfunction.

Olive Oil & Mens Sexual Health …?

admin — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 23:04:44 +0000

I have recently noticed that when I Take at least a tablespoon of Olive Oil with food a day, I get larger than usual erections and an incresed sexual desire with incresed volume of "Precum".

Iam 28 and have tried sexual ehancing drugs, but it seems there is somthing definite about olive oil and mens sexual health and stimulation.

Does anyone know what causes this sexual stimulation after taking (uncooked) Olive Oil????

This is very interesting!