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I like to watch a lot of porn. How do I tell my girl?

admin — Thu, 07 Jul 2011 12:40:32 +0000

My lady and I are in a long distance relationship and since she can’t be around, like ever, I have to take matters into my own hands. I didn’t used to watch porn, but recently a friend introduced me to it, and now… I just can’t get enough. I just love it!

It’s really bad because I get really turned on all the time and I can’t think about anything else and I can’t even function until I take care of things down there. But then I just end up horny again really soon. I think I must have persistent arousal disorder or something. The more I ***, the more I want to *** again.

I masturbate first thing in the morning, then right after I get home from work. Sometimes I can’t even wait until I get home and I have to excuse myself to the men’s room to work one out.

I’m always watching porn because it helps me out a lot. I like soft, loving romantic porn with two guys making out. I also like really graphic anal porn. And when I’m in the mood, I just love watching hardcore violent fem dom type stuff where the woman is really rough and aggressive with the guy, choking, slapping, spitting, gagging…That stuff is like, so…oh my god! I love it! Is that weird? I mean, I have to be turned on and in the right mood, but when I am, Oh My God! It really gets me going!

The problem is, I don’t think my girl has ever watched porn in her life. I don’t think she would approve of this. She’s a very conservative type. She’s big on family values and she hasn’t had sex with anyone other than me in her entire life. Her idea of a sexual fantasy is her and me alone in the bedroom, but leaving the night light on!

I don’t know if I can take it any more. I need to tell her. I want to watch porn with her. I want to see her getting turned on watching all kinds of crazy, outrageous things on the screen. I want to share this part of my life with the woman that I love.

How do I tell her?

I have chronic disorder of sexual desire. Can you help me?

admin — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 10:32:04 +0000

I am a healthy 21 yr old female with an almost-5 yr old child. this disorder has been a constant ever since i lost my virginity at 14. My 1st kiss at 13 was arousing, and i fantasized for almost a yr about things going further than they did. Then, when sex entered the picture for real, i did not become aroused at all. My 3rd partner, who is the father of my child, failed not only to give me an orgasm but also to arouse me. Sex was about him…and i didn’t notice any problem until years later. He was an insecure, jealous type that left me questioning my sanity. After all, he loved me.
After 2 yrs, i became pregnant and dumped him because i knew i couldn’tt deal with 2 children. I fell in love with hugo, a peruvian national that was 10 yrs my senior. i was 16.
i craved the contact of sex, wanted to be wanted very badly, but still no arousal…i knew what i was missing, cuz i was a chronic masturbator from an early age, pre-kindergarten.
after hugo was deported due to being an illegal, after 3 yrs together, I admit i became promiscuous. i ran from partner to partner, hoping that 1 of them would give me that magic feeling. i even indulged in drugs reputed to be "sex enhancers" to no avail. i learned with my daughter’s father how to fake an orgasm, tho, and thanks to my mother’s noisiness in the bedroom, i knew how it sounded. that became a problem too: the men had no idea something was wrong, for i performed like a porn star. the dead feeling in my groin when i had contact with them, oral, finger or penis, was utterly disappointing….the worst part was, i could still masturbate to orgasm, but the desire there too was lost. i could bring that wave of pleasure, but there was nolead upp, just a pleasant muscle spasm.
i don’t know what to do to fix myself, i don’t know why i am the way i am…but i know what im missing out on, and i want to be able to enjoy sex, not just the cuddling and tenderness, but the feeling of my partner giving me the supreme pleasure, of being able to legitimately give him MY pleasure. i sound selfish, but i just want to be normal. anyone that can help is welcome to answer this. i will appreciate the feedback.
And btw, i am 21 YEARS OLD. I have been dealing with this for 7 years. I want a normal sex life. If you hadnt orgasmed in 7 YEARS, wouldn’t you be thinking there is something wrong?
I’m a single mother trying to get my life together. therapy is out of the question. Groceries, rent, and Christmas come before that. I can’t afford anything like that. If you aren’t going to answer me with anything helpful, please don’t bother.

My boyfriend is 27 & has erectile dysfunction. Does anyone have any suggestions/help?

admin — Thu, 20 May 2010 21:31:12 +0000

I am 24 & my boyfriend is 27… we’ve been together 2 yrs & are very much in love. It’s just the sex that is causing problems. He gets so frustrated at himself, because he wants to have sex, just sometimes "it" doesn’t work. He has problems getting aroused often, & when we do have sex it’s over in a minute or two. We are open with each other & have talked about it, we even tried viagra & that didn’t work. He’s not gay, or fooling around, or anything like that, & we both want a great sexual relationship together. I am becoming frustrated myself because nothing is working, but I love him so I would never cheat. At least we are very close so we can talk about the situation, but he’s really embarrassed and mad at himself over this. Even when I try to comfort him… Anyways I would really appreciate any help that anyone could offer! Thanks a lot!!

The one thing?

admin — Tue, 11 May 2010 05:48:31 +0000

I have been married for 7 years. Throughout the last seven years my wife and I have both evolved. Through this evolution I have noticed that what she finds both emotionally and sexually stimulating has evolved as well. Other than love, what is the one thing that doesn’t change when it comes to emotional/ sexual stimulation for women?

Why porn has to be degrading to women or depicting strange or sloppy sexual acts?

admin — Sun, 09 May 2010 16:00:04 +0000

Sex is an enjoyable thing but I don’t understand why romantic love making is always absent from porn movies and why even if common sexual acts between people in love are played in those movies intercourse often ends in a disgusting or strange way : are there many people out there who ejaculate in their partners mouth ? Why the story line is always "these sluts love being fucked hard, sluts rammed by big cock etc". We enjoy my wife and I some stimulation to our sexual life but we just can’t get why porn movie makers simply ignore the common sensible people or is it that porn appeals to some dark side of men psyche and deliberately plays with it ? I tremble when I think of all the immature young fellows who might think that that’s the way sex works.
Your opinion please.

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admin — Fri, 16 Apr 2010 22:35:34 +0000

I’m male, in a monogamous relationship with a male for 15 years. 7 years ago he lost his sexual ability (permanently and physically). With the sex drive loss has come the loss of the romance & passion that comes with it. Our relationship consists of trust, companionship, and "best friend" love. These are great things, but as time has passed, it has become more difficult to deny having my own romantic needs met.

I have sought sexual stimulation on the internet to help me "get by" – it started with porn, but progressed to interacting on a webcam. Recently I met a single man whom I have a tremendous emotional and intellectual bond with. I could have a romantic relationship with him, he knows my situation, and both feel i must end my current relationship before beginning another. I’m nervous to give up what I have for something new that will have its own challenges – he’s 5000 miles away… Should my new love prevail? Have I already been unfaithful? Am I being crazy? What should I do?

Do you have schizophrenia or have a significant other with it?

admin — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 11:12:51 +0000

Schizophrenia and sexual function?
I have a paranoid schizophrenic boyfriend, 35 yrs of age. During sex, he is only interested in penetration. He is reluctant to kiss, or provide any kind of stimulation to me. In 2 years time I cannot figure out if he is just a lousy lover, or if his illness symptoms prevent him from true intimacy. He is reluctant to say more than "Don’t worry about it, I love you" Well, I am worried about it because I used to enjoy my sex life in previous relationships. I feel there is no passion in my life. My boyfriend is NOT dysfunctional sexually as a result of his antipsychotic medication.

I asked my girlfriend what a sexual fantasy of hers was and she responded by telling me about rough sex she ..

admin — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 15:26:48 +0000

I asked my girlfriend what a sexual fantasy of hers was and she responded by telling me about rough sex she with an x-boyfriend. Hearing about this bothered me greatly and made me feel very inadequate. I’m crushed that her fantasy is based off of her x and feel like I’m trying to live up to what someone else did. I know she loves me and I love her as well, this is the girl of my dreams, we’re moving in together shortly , but because of this I’m even starting to have sexual dysfunctions. I’ll prematurely ejaculate, then when we try to have sex again I’ll lose my erection. Afterwards all I can think is how she’s probably wishing she was still fucking the other guy. I don’t want to have to take Stamina RX or any pills to help me… is there any advice anyone can offer me?
is there anyway for me to express this insecurity without seeming like a total wus?

Am i a freak because I'm not interested in sexual activity yet?

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:02:26 +0000

i’m only 15 and do not see reasons as to why half the people in my class have already had sex. Up against them all i feel little and innocent, and even though i LOVE being this way and would not change it at all because i’m not ready to sell myself like that yet, is it weird or relatively normal?