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Does arousal tell my sexual orientation?

admin — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 01:44:23 +0000

I am a 15 year old boy who masturbates daily. I tried both straight and gay porn to experiment whether I’m gay or not. I have been living in fear for 2 years now and I even talk to my guidance teacher about. I also went to a doctor and said that I suffer from OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), I didn’t get up from bed or eat, just thinking all day long about being gay or not. However, I’m all right now but not fully cured. The thing is, when I watch gay porn or fantasize about it gets me aroused. I do not however want to be in any kind of relationship with a man. I like mature girls and when I find a girl mature I become very attracted to her like I want to be with her and feel warmth inside me. I have never felt this way to a man. What do you think? Does this arousal mean I’m gay…or maybe bisexual?

is it normal to be constipated after a lot of sexual activity?..?

admin — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 14:01:26 +0000

I am in a new relationship and it has been a month or two since I have had any sexual activity.. is it normal to be constipated and feeling pressure at my tail bone after a week of heavy "hooking up" Related posts:Is it normal talking to bf about sexual activity a lot? What is the longest [...] Related posts:

is sexual activity needed in a young relationship?

admin — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 16:02:26 +0000

if im not ready to have sexual relations with my 18 year old boyfriend (im 17) but he is, will that wreck our relationship? weve been togetehr for half a year and hes been bringing it up lately Related posts:Is a relationship without sexual activity impossible? Am i a freak because I'm not interested in sexual activity [...] Related posts:

ways to prevent sexual activity?

admin — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 14:00:34 +0000

every time i am with a girl even though we are not doing anything i think about sex. and just by checking her out.. i get a massive boner. is their any way i can control all that. its also affecting my relationship? Related posts:Please can somebody tell me what I can do to prevent premature [...] Related posts:

Is this considered cheating?

admin — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 19:40:41 +0000

If person A is involved in a relationship with person B, that is monogamous, but person A is involved in BDSM. Person A goes to BDSM parties with person B’s permission. Person A gets involved in a spur of the moment, non-negotiated, erotic asphyxiation scene with a person at the party. Upon blacking out, person A has an orgasm. There’s no other sexual stimulation, just the sleeper hold resulting in an orgasm upon blacking out.

Did person A cheat on person B?

Anyone know how we can fix this? Is there anyway we can create a spark?

admin — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 12:30:16 +0000

I’ve been best friends with this girl for over a year. She and I click, we think alike, we do everything together. She is like my other half. We’re just friends. We’ve kissed. We’ve engaged in clothed forms of sexual stimulation. Last night it went furthur and she removed her bra. The problem is, there is NO SPARK. We’ve kissed, but it feels dead to both of us. She isn’t sexually attracted to me, I am undecided. We laugh about how we’ll probably get married because it seems to be our fate and say how we’re both doomed. We joke, but it really IS a problem. I have expressed an interest in a relationship with her, but she does not feel that way about me. I don’t think we can stop, because we DO connect on a deeper level and that is not something we can ignore. We may not have a physical attraction to each other, but we have physical needs. I don’t think we would be happy with a lesser relationship with somebody else, but I fear we may opt for that choice cause we can’t find that spark.

Have you ever engaged in 'online' and 'telephone' sexual activity?

admin — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 06:00:49 +0000

How long did this relationship last ? Was it a disappointment in the long run? Did you ever actually meet the person at a later time? Related posts:CAN MRI SCANS SHOW WHETHER YOU HAVE ENGAGED IN SEXUAL ACTIVITY OR CONSUMPTION OF ALCOHOL? Is this considered cheating? does this mean i was engaged in sexual activity? Related posts:

Sexual Deviance?

admin — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:37:15 +0000

Many of religions see homosexuality, and whatever else there is outside of heterosexuality (not making fun i just don’t know) as a type of sexual deviance. Some people argue that it is a form of genetic perversion.

I wonder is it deviance or is it just pure choice? Whether its one thing in another or rub this way, isn’t it all simple stimulation? If so then could u see your self in a heterosexual relationship if it were pure stimulation?

Lastly once your desires are full filled is there still emotion, or just lust?

I personally want to believe that people love one another for who they are, but a common problem in American society is mistaken love for lust. Is this also a problem in the homosexual community?

Do you GIRLS ever want anything sexual?

admin — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 18:08:46 +0000

Hello. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We are both sophomores in college and love each other very much, but due to recent events, I am starting to ask myself some hard questions about this relationship. For about 9 months now, we are AVERAGING 2 sexual experiences a month. Sometimes there are 0 in a month, and by sexual experience I mean that I make her have an orgasm by going down on her. The only stimulation I have received in the past year is from her hand while I’m still using only my fingers on her (she has not gotten me in over a year). She does not want to do anything more to me because she thinks its gross. Lately, I have been having strong urges for her to do more and actually get me(yes I’ve told her). I love her very much, but she has no desire to do anything sexually. I am always the one who initiates any kind of making out or sexual activity, and I becoming sick of it. AM I obsessed with sex or is this a problem in our relationship
I DO NOT JUST WANT SEX FROM HER! I’ve been going a long time with and if that was the case I would not have dated her for 4 years! I have talked to her and she likes me getting her. She just seems to think its weird and gross. Thats her exact words. We’ve been thinking about having sex. And even tried once or twice. But it hurts her too much and so we stopped. I just want her to actually WANT to get me i guess. I dont want ful sex, but oral or her just getting me ONCE might be nice …
she didnt have any problems as a kid. Its not like that, her parents are VERY loving toward her and even me.

Sexual dysfunction, help!!?

admin — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:34:40 +0000

Ok, so first thing, I use my vibrator ALOT and now it seems to take me forever to climax and I cannot seem to do it without it. When my bf performs oral, its good, but its not my vibrator so I usually cant orgasm. Should I stop using vibrators? Second thing, my bf is more sexually experienced than I am, he’s had threesomes, foursomes, etc. and I haven’t had any of the above. We have the greatest relationship-we were friends before we got involved with each other. But now it seems as sex is getting stale for us. I can be a freaky person, when its brought out of me. I’m not that creative so I don’t know what else to do. We talk about this stuff all the time, but I want to surprise him with something different. I’m not ready to do the threesome thing because I’ve heard good and bad things about doing that. Any suggestions? I love him and he loves me and I just want to make sure we are both sexually fufulling each others’ needs. Help!