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How can a 20 something guy get his sex drive back?!?

admin — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 06:13:26 +0000

I used to have a surging, robust sexual drive. It was absolutely off the charts. I felt like Kennedy on crack, with my throbbing 7 inch springing to life every time I laid eyes on a curvy figure or a cute face. Then, one day, I lost it all. I was listening to head phones too loudly and punctured a hole in my ear drum.

To make a long story short, the whole healed and my hearing is perfect now but I developed an inner ear disorder called eustachian tube dysfunction. It is chronic. It was very painful at first but now I just hear a slight pop in my ears each time I swallow.

I’ve been on decongestants galore and I’m ninety percent cured of the disease…just judging by how I feel. YET. One terrible thing happened to me, which may or may not be related to the ear disease. My masturbation sessions began to hurt. Every time I ejaculated I felt pain throughout my body. Don’t tell me it had nothing to do with ETD because it did…in those early days at least.

Then one day, I closed my eyes and dreamed of the rockstar chick, of my dreams I shot the most monstrous load of my life cause I was fantasizing about butt f***king her over a heap of coke.

Ever since that masturbation session, my sex drive has been virtually dead.

I was 22 years old.

I have tried everything to bring my sex drive back….psych meds. exercise, hookers, dance parties, and a girlfriend or two. I’m now 28 and I still go weeks at a time without feeling any sexual arousal.
If you know anything about the link between chronic pain and sex drive disorders please help.
If you know anything about how to revitalize sexual energy after the libido had died due to past genital pain, then please help.
If you know anything AT ALL about how a twenty something man can rejuvenate his sex drive, please help.

My erections are still strong and normal but I don’t feel any sexual energy. I just get a hard on in a very mechanical, disconnected way.
And I don’t get erect as often as a I used to.

What can I do about my sexual health?? It's a complex story.?

admin — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 04:13:57 +0000

I’ve been on decongestants galore and I’m ninety percent cured of the disease…just judging by how I feel.

YET. One terrible thing happened to me, which may or may not be related to the ear disease.
My masturbation sessions began to hurt. Every time I ejaculated I felt pain throughout my body.
Don’t tell me it had nothing to do with ETD because it did…in those early days at least.

Then one day, I closed my eyes and dreamed of the rockstar chick, of my dreams I shot the most monstrous load of my life cause I was fantasizing about butt f***king her over a heap of coke.

Ever since that masturbation session, my sex drive has been virtually dead.
I was 22 years old.

If you know anything about the link between chronic pain and sex drive disorders please help.
If you know anything about how to revitalize sexual energy after the libido had died due to past genital pain, then please help.
If you know anything AT ALL about how a twenty something man can rejuvenate his sex drive, please help.

My erections are still strong and normal but I don’t feel any sexual energy. I just get a hard on in a very mechanical, disconnected way.
And I don’t get erect as often as a I used to.

I'm worried that if I dont start having sex soon I'm gonna end up w/ sexual dysfunction…?

admin — Sat, 15 May 2010 08:43:18 +0000

…or even lose my sex drive altogether.

Im 22 and still havent had sex. I’m perfectly healthy atm and produce lots of sperm & jack off a lot but no girl wants to be w me. i have so much love 2 give but girls just arent interested. Im worried that by the time a girl does want to do it with me, my body or my mind will have just given up trying 2 become aroused because it figures, this guy is never gonna have sex, whats the point. Sometimes I’m worried that I might become gay as a consequence. Not that I have anything against gay people or even have anything against the idea of being gay myself in principle – it just feels weird 2 me. Tho it would probs mean I could have a sex life because gay guys hit on me all the time on the internet but girls always ignore me. What do you guys think? Are my fears justified? I read an article recently saying men who dont lose their virginity till 22 or older are much more likely to develop sexual problems

What to do if you don't have a sex drive and haven't had one for a few years?

admin — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 03:34:28 +0000

I’m a christian.I’ve tried Taking extra testerone along with my estrogen.I’ve been to one doctor who said there’s really nothing they can do.So,I do Pray alot.I’m married.So,you know it’s difficult for my husband.It’s really hard.Not being able to get turned on at all.To just not have a sex drive.I guess it’s female sexual dysfunction.But, any help or ideas very appreciated>Thanks

I believe I have SSRI sexual dysfunction can anyone help?

admin — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 08:31:03 +0000

I took cytalopram for about a year or more for my anxiety then fluoxetine for quite a while and I just cannot seem to ejaculate whilst having sex. I can whilst masturbating which, apparently, is quite common. I am sick of not being able to get any enjoyment out of sex. It frustrates my girlfriend and it really upsets me. This has been going on for about three years now and I would really like it to stop. I used to have a fair sex drive but now I dread having sex through fear of embarrassment and unfulfillment. Thank you.

Antidepressants and sex drive. Please help.?

admin — Sun, 04 Apr 2010 19:03:28 +0000

Can antidepressants cause genital numbness? Please help.?
I have been on effexor for 3 months and STOPPED a year ago. Since then I find that my penis has become insensitive to sexual stimulation. I can still get erections, but the "sensations" are not the same. Any advice? Or has anyone experienced genital numbness with antidepressants or after stopping them? I’m worried my sensitivity will never return. I’ve been to docs they say its "in my head." or they cant help me.

How can I fix my sexual drive I Have induced Homosexuality through porn over long duration, is there quik fix?

admin — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 11:14:01 +0000

I can trace back the development of my thinking I have yet to have intercorse out side of BJ and HJ from a Girl. I have gone further with a guy to include Anal. But I am not a big fan of anal, But I fear that the infatuation That I fostered over the years is hampering me from having traditional intercourse with a female, I am ok untill It comes to "sticking it" my penis won’t stay hard ….I believe it to be a little bit of stress mixed with fear of mistake along side of Having never experienced vaginal stimulation I don’t get very excited at the prospect, so I am in something of a paradox, Outside of watching ton’s of str8 porn and building up more of a hetero sex drive is there a quicker fix?

Is there something i can do or take to keep my sexual desire or libido up after i reach a orgasm?

admin — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 23:55:28 +0000

I feel like i have erectile dysfunction because when I’m having sex i reach orgasms very fast, sometimes to the point where its just ridiculous & embarrassing but somehow i have been able to gain a little ground with this problem and at least maintain a pretty decent erection to continue to have sex after i have reached a orgasm. But now I’m noticing that once i do reach a orgasm i dramatically lose the sexual desire,libido, or sex drive that i had when i first started and also if i stop for a awhile lets say to change positions or whatever my erection begins to soften on me. So i was wondering first is this normal especially for a male at my age(20). and second is there something i can take or do to help with this problem something besides Viagra.
!!!!!!SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY PLEASE!!!!!!

Are Gay men just more sexual beings than Straight men?

admin — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 11:10:57 +0000

I’ve been wondering about this for a while. I feel like straight guys are missing out on what it feels like to have a double orgasm (orgasm caused by penis and prostate stimulation at the same time). I know I’ve experienced pleasure 20x more powerful than anything a straight man will ever experience. Are we just more sexual than they are?
I’m not talking about sex drive, I’m talking about the fact that straight men don’t explore all the possibilities of having orgasms.

What ADD(Or ADHD) medications cause sexual dysfunction? Or can effect the sex drive? I’ve taken many of these.

admin — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 21:39:14 +0000

I’ve been on so many medications, and I’ve taken each one for so long. I’ve noticed my sex drive isn’t really strong at all. And Im a guy(Im only 18), Sometimes I dont feel aroused at all, or I dont get turned on enough for an erection. Although recently I was prescribed Bupropion(Which makes me feeell soooo goood =] ) , Can that effect me in the future?

Do any of these prescriptions effect me?

I have been on Ritalin, Stratera(Hah Worse shit ever made, made me depressed[Suit Ice Dale] , Adderal [Made me tweaked out, i lost 45 pounds, and definetly caused ED], Concerta, and last Wellbutrin(Bupropion).

Honestly I dont know what to do. Or what it is.. or was.