when i met my girlfriend she already had a genital piercing, she showed it off to me the first week..kinda slutty….anyways… she told me she got it out of spite of her exboyfriend. she is 25..now my fiance, i have tried to move past it but it is hard…i mean we know these piercings are for sexual stimulation..she took it out, but the fact that a person goes and does that is inconceivable to be i cannot comprehend it. its gross…
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May 7th, 2010 at 11:50 am
if you love her and want to marry her then let it go. if it is a that much of a sore spot then let her go and hope that it was worth it.
May 7th, 2010 at 11:50 am
Please forgive me if I am wrong, however, this doesn’t sound like you have a problem with the piercing. It would appear as though you take issue with the fact that she did it out of spite. I believe that is what you can not get past. If this is the case, you and her need to have a talk. Let her know what you are really thinking, because if you don’t you won’t get past it and you two should not get married. If you don’t resolve this before the wedding, you are going to have a lot of problems in your marriage.
May 7th, 2010 at 11:50 am
sounds like this is deal breaker for you… move on….
May 7th, 2010 at 11:50 am
What one does to ones body is their porogative. I say loosen up, and live a little. It took me 38 years to realize that. Life is to short for small problems of that magnitude. Who knows, you might even enjoy it.
May 7th, 2010 at 11:50 am
well if this is a continuing from the first question you totally left us hanging …..so u did know about the piercing …..well…..u went in the relationship with eyes wide open….so there is other issue’s going on for sure..its not the piercing and she took it out so what is the prob…..