As an example, we used to use toys regularly, but seldom do anymore.
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September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
I don’t have much interest in sex toys either. At first it was fun to try but the human touch really can’t be replaced or improved upon – unless the improvement is in the skill of the human touch!
I have no interest in some positions that once worked. I think that as I have gotten comfortable with my own sexuality I have given myself permission to just enjoy the sensations of my own body – and know and say what I like and what I don’t really care for. I’m a pleaser so it was a leap to focus on myself and be okay with it being all about me for a time.
I tried for a long long time to get really good at what my husband really loves – oral. But he never finishes so I have learned to move to what I know works for him before things go south. I am definitely losing interest in that because there is never a reward and it makes me feel bad!
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Misionary position was Great the First few Times having Sex but Got old after That
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
None. I pretty much like everything I’ve tried.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Getting screwed by the State.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
well my fiance and i when we we just dating we used to play sex games to get "aroused" and now we hardly do. we also used to watch porn before sex but we seldom do that anymore either. i think its because we can do more stuff without that added bonus i guess you can say
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Receiving oral. I’d rather give.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Backdoor sex. We did it once-it was less than thrilling for me and too thrilling for him. I told him if we get married we can do it occasionally because I believe in compromise, but it doesn’t interest me at all.
And oral sex =-\ I’m working on this one…
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Backdoor. Not worth the effort.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
I don’t think it’s the sexual activity, that makes one lose interest, mainly because what ever you try for the first time, is always a big kinky and exciting, but it all wears out after a while. Unless you find something you both really enjoy.
Once you have done something, say using toys, or anal or oral sex, once you have experienced the thrill, it’s never that exciting again.
Especially if you have done it a lot. Then you usually have to go and try something a bit more kinkier, to get the same thrill.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
I haven’t lost "interest" in much of anything. I still desire to do most of what we used to, with a few exceptions: porn – we don’t need that anymore, oral while driving, public settings, maybe shouldn’t do threesomes since married (don’t really think about it). She has much less interest in sex than she used to (she was experimental and wanted it all the time until we had kids), but she says she is no longer interested in certain things that she did when younger. Hers are – May do again for her husband but not now: certain role playing, anal, outdoors, get back into lingerie. Enjoyed in youth, but no longer interested: threesomes, women, porn, public locations, the car thing, toys that are too large or too deep, shaving, food and drink.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
menage trois… once its a reality the fantasy is gone. fantasy is somuch better than reality in this situation.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Well Bob, that would be in the butt, Bob!
Just kidding, I take all the playing I can get… toys and all!
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Boy, the list might be too naughty for YA…
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Foreplay….
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
Sex? hahaha
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
SWINGING/PARTNER SWAPPING ORGY
At first, changing partners was fun. You know, the exciting moments when you get to have a taste with new p u s s i e s, and you get to see your beloved one reaching her climax with another guy? Yeah, they pretty much blew your head off. Mutual cheating on the spot. It seems to be addictive.
But as me and my partner realized how our LOVE and AFFECTIONS start to fall apart, we kinda felt sad about it. After days of quarreling and unperformed duties and obligations we came to our senses how wrong it was.
I mean, what about the love? Do we just have to keep on focusing on our sexual fantasies and forget about our more meaningful obligations to each other? Our plans for our future. What will become of us if we continued doing this? Everything that we built and started will soon lose its value.
We gave the lifestyle up and rediscovered that sex the classic way is much more satisfying and exciting after all.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
You don’t have much interest in sex i guess huh
September 16th, 2009 at 5:52 am
I was married 25 years and find in my sexual journies we tried toys as well as role play, fantasy etc. It isnt that you lose interest really. It’s that you continually strive to keep things unpredictable and ever changing. Mutual masterbation while you talk about fantasies brings alot of things undone to the forefront.